Negotiations
If you are a real estate investors
I suggest you remember the following points:
Continue the relationship -
Extend and evaluate it, a literal interpretation of the Latin root means to continue the business.
Famous methods:
There are famous systems of negotiations: "Salami" - intimidation, and the method “Cherries"- deception, the good guy and the bad guy"-blaming the bad guy for all your demands.
Take a broker -
He can be the bad guy or the good guy for you. Sometimes you need a broker to blame for the lack of decision or choice. You can stay close to the other side and not make him mad or impatient at you for indecision, it's easier to move when you say “my wife will not have time” you should not to say “difficult things” by yourself you should be the loved one.
Separated -
Separate the problems from the people that want to solve them, take care that nothing should be personal, focus on interests and not on situations, try to generate as many alternatives as possible and generate a few options before a decision and try to find points of objectivity to talk about in the earlier stages.
The best possible profit or total victory -
You should try to get the maximum profit that the parties can offer, both sides should have a mutual win. A real estate transaction is usually a long connection of faith and requires working together with many parts, it affects our reputation and the speed of the entire transaction. If you are looking for total victory you will not get the deal.
Positive self-confidence -
You Should come to negotiations with a lot of self-confidence, something positive to say and say a lot of Yes, yes, yes, start agreements and produce honesty. Start with what you give, what you want and how you see things and why ... And finally get to those things that you will not compromise on. Chances are you will get them if you say them at the very end.
Anger -
Once we get tired, we do not see the possibilities, we become concentrated in ourselves and our emotions rather than on cooperating with the chance to close the deal. This happens even when we have a good deal and all we wanted.
Motivation -
“When there is a will there is a way”. If there is an option and capability, so the most important thing is to push it to deal more and more. Negotiations will fail if both parties have no desire and no ability.
Group power-
The group has greater power in the negotiations.
There is more planning, thought and expression in a group, more likely to find connections, cooperation and understanding on the subject and thus more capacity.
Take with you an expert.
Pass the “no”-
If you feel anger Go to the balcony. If you get tired, don’t speak nervously, otherwise it will be the best speech you will most regret.
Take the time -
You should take time to decide don’t decide on the spot, don’t push the negotiations
You should exhaust every step.
Replace chairs -
Move to the other side, listen to him, acknowledge his points, his feelings, agree without any arrogance, collect his sincere “yes yes yes”.
Not provoke the other side and luck -
When you express your side did it without any provocation.
Avoid at all cost from the word "but".
And say “we”, not “you”.
Stay positive -
When you're talking about differences of opinion do so in a positive tone.
Most business success is almost always triumph of mutual gain or mutual loss.
Instead of opposing -
Formulate again.
If there is a problem: Formulate new framework.
What if? What is fair? Why not? Use each other's knowledge,
Ask for advice, ask open questions, let “quiet” work, it is impossible to break down walls you need to move around them.
Do not reject the idea of fear of rejecting the human behind it.
Keep the negotiations by negotiating on the road and your ideas before you talk about the details.
Do not push -
Build.
Write the other side's victory speech and you will earn the biggest gains.
Do not be too smart-
Ask questions, especially if you know the answer just to make agreements, speak slowly in order not to fall into the holes. Ask for help, keep explaining the reasons for your requests.
No one wants to do business with someone smarter that might bend them by force.
Round non-price method-
Offer $ 195,588 ... This gives the impression that you know something that the other side does not, and there is good reason for giving precisely this price.
Your proposal from the other side -
Let the other side say what you are willing to give. In the same sentence you give take what you want as a condition of your concession, remember to start it with what you are giving and ask the other side to give up a bigger concession.
Positive compliments all the time and make them real -
If you find a reason to give a compliment don’t hold back. You are responsible for the spirit of the negotiations if there is a good spirit your chance to get a batter price improves. People are not rational, they are emotional, sometimes they do not love someone even if the money is good they are willing to loss the deal. Not to give you the house they love.
Take the time to be polite-
Be polite, say "none of us want to lose everything he has achieved so far," offere another small concession, and ask for a waiver from the other side.
Remind that you both want the deal and create solidarity.
good luck.
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